The Picture Perfect Proposal Dinner

When it comes to popping the question during your dinner with us, the ambiance and the carefully chosen dishes will create your magical moment.

But one crucial aspect often leaves many scratching their heads: when exactly should you propose? Before the appetizers or after dessert? There are no right or wrong answers, just what feels right for you and your partner. Here’s a breakdown of the pros and cons to help you decide.

PROS AND CONS OF PROPOSING BEFORE DINNER

PRO: THE REST OF THE MEAL BECOMES A CELEBRATION
Proposing before dinner means the rest of the meal is a joyous celebration. A positive response can turn the entire evening into a memorable, romantic experience with a great meal and a delightful dessert.

PRO: REDUCES NERVOUSNESS
If you’re feeling anxious about the proposal, getting it out of the way early can help you relax and enjoy the rest of the evening without the looming question.

CON: After a proposal, excitement can overshadow the meal. You might find yourself too exhilarated to focus on the food, which could make the dining experience less enjoyable.

PROS AND CONS OF PROPOSING AFTER DINNER

PRO: FOCUSED MEAL EXPERIENCE
Waiting until after dinner allows you both to enjoy the meal without any distractions. This way, you get to savor the food and the ambiance, making the dining experience as special as it should be.

PRO: INTIMATE CELEBRATION POST-PROPOSAL
Proposing after dinner means you can immediately head somewhere private to celebrate your engagement, allowing for a more personal and intimate moment together.

CON: Harder to Hide Nervousness
The anticipation can be challenging to conceal. Your partner might notice your nervousness, which could create an awkward atmosphere during the meal.

WHERE TO PUT THE RING

You have the perfect timing figured out. Now, it’s time to decide on the ring presentation.
Here are a few creative ideas:

RING SURROUNDING NAPKIN
A simple yet elegant presentation where the ring is tied around / hiding under the napkin of your partner

PERSONALIZED WOODEN HEART
We will provide a wooden heart under your chair inscribed with ‘Will You Marry Me’. Once you feel it’s the right moment, you can put the heart on the table

RING IN CAKE
Place the ring on top of or inside your special dessert
*Ensure your partner doesn’t accidentally eat it!

RING IN GIFT BOX ON TABLE
We will provide a Lombok Style Gift Box with the ring on your dining table.
Your partner will be curious and open the box

SERENADE BY OUR BAND
Our house band will walk to your dining table, serenade your partner.
One you feel it’s the right moment, you will present the ring

PLAN NOW

Planning the perfect proposal dinner involves thoughtful consideration and a touch of creativity. Allow me, your personal wedding- and proposal planner, to make it most memorable and to make the most out of this special milestone in your relationship.
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Anja
Owner, Co-Founder and Wedding – & Proposal Planner of The Lombok Lodge Hospitality®

Mail: anja@thelomboklodge.com
Chat: https://wa.me/32477296093
Call: +62 (0)851 00622 926

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